How Did I Get Here?

Updated: Feb 17

When life's knocked the wind out of us, we often ask "how did I get here?", which is quickly followed by "why me?" and "how come?", But try not to loose heart, there is a reason for it. Together, lets look at a few reasons why we get stuck at rock bottom and miss the Purpose Point.

What is a Purpose Point?

A Purpose Point is a point in life where you have no other choice but to get real with yourself about where you are. It is in this moment that the real purpose for your life begins to unfold. In this same moment, you relax and allow the truth to permeate your senses and revive your spirit. And, with one foot in front of the other, your can begin to become who you are truly meant to be. It's scary at first, but freeing!!

Most people get stuck at rock bottom because they can only see the problem. They cannot look over it, under it, or around it... so it consumes them. And, when they focus on the negative, it's easy for them to get comfortable there. As it is often said, we have to make a choice to take a chance or, life will never change.


Start by asking what yourself what went wrong. Chances are, you'll recall an exact moment when life seemed to go "off track". Then, surround yourself with people who truly love you and have your best interest at heart to talk freely about what's going on.

Here’s how to do it:

  1. Write out what happened.

  2. Acknowledge your role in the events.

  3. Grab a true friend and share , or CONTACT US!!

  4. Be vulnerable, and share what it is that you really want to see happen.

  5. Be authentically you, one moment at a time.

Written by: Purpose Point for Women, Inc.

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